Sunday, 30 April 2023

He's Here Again Today!

He arrived late morning. The 5 year-old dynamo would be with me -baba- till dad picked him up later that day. There was a treasure trove of fun things to do, including school work, for this home-schooled child. He was beyond his years in all the markers used to assess little children, the easiest people to teach. 

Little children and I mesh well. Did that indicate I was a child, too? Probably. As a child, I enjoyed being around older people. Nowadays, as a grandmother, I enjoy little people. The rules are simple- follow them my sweet. Discipline is not my game. It belongs to mom and dad. My job is to follow their rules where you are concerned, dear boy. 

'Oscar' loves sports, numbers, rhyming words, running and dogs. Today we have 4 - mine and his with us. The ten-year-old retriever is running with Oscar, never letting up unless Oscar does, around the fenced area with a large cage inside. I watch them all. It is my job to keep both groups of excitable creatures from fighting or anything else that might surface. Time to go indoors for printing and reading. He recently turned five.

As an old lady I am ready for anything. My rules tell the story. Living in the country can be a dangerous place, I remind my precious 5-year-old. Nothing is completely safe, anywhere, I continue. He understands. Trees and bushes abound. I begin picking up the twigs, large branches and other fallen 'debris' lying around

Wind has played havoc with the outdoor playground, recently. I need to remove the fallen stock from the ground. The unsightly green mess really bothers me. Always has. But now an idea comes to mind. “Would you like to clean this small area, my child, for $5.00,? He smiles - as he often does- and asks for $10.00” “Sorry” I reply. “The job is not worth ten”'. Good try, I thought. “Do the rest of the area nearby and you'll get $10.00” He agrees, happily. We work together as I show him that some jobs take two or more people to finish. Soon he stops. “I'm tired”. “Well that is unfortunate, I remark. No pay for a job half done”, I say. He smiles and begins again to finish. 

The crisp ten dollar bill grabs his attention. Into his special bank account the money will go when dad arrives. Oscar's entrepreneurial spirit says it all. He's happy to be here, running with the dogs, running out of breath and watching a Disney animal special about Lilly the gorilla. He wants to move, learn and eat salmon. Easy to love and easy to please. His delightful hugs are the price of admission into baba's world. He's sold. And so am I.

Saturday, 29 April 2023

Commercials' Hold Over Us Today

Commercials have become king, competing with the shows they underwrite, both in time and cost. Television needs to pay for what we watch. That is understandable. Thank goodness, however, we have PVR, the mute button and of course, the off switch when we've simply had enough.

A new twist on commercials, nowadays, has the networks appearing on the screen, at the bottom, inconspicuously, while the show is in progress as if to say to us “ Your private viewing time does not matter, to us, anymore!” Mustn't forget the product. It is forgotten, however, by an disgruntled viewer. Having just watched several minutes of your advertised product, I am not amused to see it plastered on the screen, again, reminding me to buy it or subscribe to it. The product code entices us, non-stop, to buy without thought.

Time is the enemy to advertisers - not us. Click. See how quickly the money disappears. Why did I do that? The screen aids in our destruction. Buy now. Do not think about it, they hope! Our future has this daily message as we watch. Will there be anything left to support us and our dreams? Is our health going to matter then? How soon will our down fall happen? We now have online betting. Emptying our bank accounts never looked so good - to them. A scary scenario, I'd say!!

Life is about commercials yet we have an added burden - that of personal stories of the on air hosts. The prize is the invited on-air guest. Irrelevant information of the hosts is of no consequence to me. My own life is too boring to contemplate. Birthday and birth announcements, cake included, are inappropriate, on air tools. Where is the information you dispel? Useless banter is useless. We did not ask! If every second - on air - is a costly enterprise, then stop wasting precious our time and those of the invited guest. Fluff is irrelevant; real news is not.The invited guests should reign, each and every time!

Air time is a costly moment. The personal stories of the hosts who present the hour long programs become intrusions into the viewing audience's time. Our time is important, too. The airing of a segment near the end with 5 seconds left is an affront to the dignity of the invited guest and the audience watching. Is that gimmick an enticement for us to stay till the end? Do it once, shame on you. Do it twice or thrice, shame on me. I'll simply go elsewhere for entertainment. The choice is endless and commercials are not king. Life is too short to waste.