Tuesday, 28 February 2023

Never Give Up! Ever!

Our 14-year-old canine manages to test the limits of endurance and life. After injuring herself during a short marathon in snow, uphill, with her 5 year old human cousin, Sally required treatments to address the swelling, inflammation and other hidden issues. She could barely stand, walk or eat easily. A harness with its rear end attachment helped restore her strength, once again. She is a miracle in a retriever's guise. If I dare complain to her, she will simply ignore me. Good for her!

The snow has arrived in this winter location. She loves the outside walk and the challenge it presents. Though Sally has mobility issues, walking is a must nonetheless. I want to stay indoors myself but she needs what she needs. All dogs do! The rear end handle helps her outdoor 'play' have meaning. To those companies who make these contraptions so our pets can walk and heal, I salute and honour you.

Lifting 70 pounds of puppy is a mean feat for this old lady. But I must keep fit if her life has meaning. One cannot exist without the other.

When the snow falls, walking can be difficult so I use my special shovel to create fresh pathways. Each new snow fall buries the walkways created before. Every new pathway is akin to a maize or labyrinth making their brains work a bit harder at this new way home. Brains that are challenged retain the knowledge and spirit of the past. New ways of playing create new memories thus encouraging our seniors - both animal and human - to figure it out all over again in a new way. 

It is my job to address her exercise regimen outdoors. The inside ones cannot be changed as walls are permanent. When she hears me chopping or slicing Sally gets up to 'look'. Movement is good in all its forms as is the interest she shows. Tumeric is an integral part of her diet, thus keeping her brain clear, ready for the next intrusion into her life. No time for pity here. I have work to do. And so does she, the darling in my life.



Being a Grandmother

Being a grandmother is a special role. Though I had one while growing up, she never bothered with any of us. She was too important in her own mind. Four of her girls were my aunts, incredible women I loved. Intolerance was the name of her game. She disliked my dad and my mom, her daughter. Her grandchildren were collateral damage, I guess. I did not waiver. Family strife was not my game. Time would be wasted. It belonged elsewhere.

As a grandmother since 2017, I am learning. It is an unusual fun-loving role, one that fills me with love, fun AND AMAZING PEOPLE: 5 LITTLE ONES UNDER THE AGE OF SIX - for now! As often as possible, I engage in conversation with my grandchildren - 4 boys, a one-year-old girl and soon-to-be three little girls by May. Our newest heir is just under 2 months old.

I remember being asked to come and play with O, our second oldest, recently. I was honoured that a little boy wanted to play with an old lady. My philosophy: ask questions and let them lead. They must lead at some point so why not learn with me and begin the process? Words such as show me, tell me and help me learn makes leaders of them all. 

Giving little ones the attention they need and deserve focuses on teaching them who is in charge with their best interests at heart: mom and dad. Baba is second tier; mom and dad, first.